#8 What Does Sex Have to Do With It? with Vanessa and Xander Marin

Even if you think sex has nothing to do with your business, your life, and your overall success and happiness, you’re wildly mistaken! Join me to talk about all things sex, and to debunk common myths while providing practical advice, are my amazing friends Vanessa and Xander Marin. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a “regular dude” who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade, and together they help couples in long-term relationships keep the spark alive through their guides, courses, free challenges, their own podcast and their new book called Sex Talks. I fully believe that your love life and the confidence you have in yourself is directly related to your success and expansion in all areas of your life, including business, and there are no better people to shed more light on these topics than Vanessa and Xander. What they teach and share has been a huge help for my relationship with my own partner, and I think people will have so many more questions for Vanessa and Xander that we just may have to bring them back on the podcast for a Part Two! Make sure to check out all that Vanessa and Xander have to offer, and send us a DM, @katetaylorstylist and @vanessandxander to let us know what you got from this powerful conversation! I want to hear from you. Is there a specific guest you’d like to have on the show? Do you have a question that you’d love to have the answer to? Connect with me on social and send me a message, and I’m at @katetaylorstylist. Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast to get all the up-to-date info and the latest episodes! For all things podcast and to get the freebies and downloads, go to ​​https://katetaylorstylist.com/podcast. What I Cover In This Episode: Some of the reasons why it’s often so hard for us all to talk about sex [5:00] A starting point for understanding what’s real and what’s not around these topics of sex [9:11] Their thoughts on the dynamics for same-sex relationships, specifically around initiation [10:40] Why talking about sex matters and we need to be paying attention to our sex lives [18:19] Why Vanessa and Xander wrote their book and how it can help busy entrepreneurs right now [20:11] The impact that confidence, physical appearance and styles has in the bedroom, plus how so many of us are getting confidence wrong [22:48] A breakdown of the 5 crucial conversations we need to be having around sex, and the steps you can take with each one [26:04] Homework you can do right now to get to the next level of your sex life with your partner [39:37]